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Sadness

7/5/2017

5 Comments

 
Sadness. An emotion that positive psychology often avoids, yet is a very real part of life (just watch Inside Out as a great illustration of the beauty of different emotions), and one that covers me now. Last week, my colleague and dear friend, Dr Christine Siokou, suddenly passed away. It is an enormous loss.

I have lost an incredible person that has driven my work in ways that I would never have imagined. Over the past year, we have worked closely together, developing this area of Positive Systems Science. It has been a labour of our minds and hearts - driving us, challenging us, and inspiring us. We have met together each week, even multiple times during the week, carefully consider our ideas, writing together, questioning each word we use, turning things over and over from two different yet complementary perspectives. So far, we have several presentations and blog posts, an article under review), others in the works, and several grant proposals. The beginnings of something big... or not. Christine has pushed my thinking and ideas in ways that I never imagined, opening up a world of possibility. 

Christine was also a beautiful person, both inside and out. She had an incredible heart for people. I can't even begin to describe all of her good characteristics. I have truly been blessed by having her a part of my life. 

We have worked hard to establish this new area of PSS. There's so much missing, so much I never learned from her. I feel so inadequate to carry on without her. At the same time, she has inspired me, and I feel compelled to carry this area forward, perhaps as a legacy to an incredible person. These are some of the real-world complexities of life. 

Written by Peggy Kern
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Mariana Velo link
24/5/2017 10:39:49 am

Dear Peggy,
I'm deeply sorry for your loss. Hope sadness unveils the most important connections between you both and gratefulness fills your heart and mind to keep your work going. Warmest regards

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Elaine Mason
29/5/2017 09:35:56 pm

Peggy - I am so sorry for your loss. Finding a collaborator that can both challenge and balance us is rare. Please know that the work you are doing has meaning and, I am hopeful, full that work you may make sense of loosing a life so unexpectedly and early. Best - Elaine

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Alan Osborne link
24/4/2018 10:11:50 pm

Every individual encounters downheartedness at some point in their lives. If I am not wrong, I think it's a kind of emotion that lasts longer than other feelings or sentiments. When glumness captures you completely, you will certainly feel depressed. Unfortunately, coping with sadness and pain can never be easy. But if you really want to deal with your difficult emotions, then you have to develop a positive psychology. Because your positive temperament will tell you how to face the feelings of sadness strongly.

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28/1/2021 02:53:16 pm

Great post, thankyou

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